I'm a simple creature, really I am. I try my best to be straightforward & I expect others to do the same. I go through great pains to set rules for my encounters so no one misunderstands and gets hurt. Now I find myself in a predicament where I think I may get hurt because of another person's lack of clarity.
Let me preface this by saying, he is a really nice guy, handsome, educated, thoughtful (for the most part) and dead sexy. He's not looking for a relationship. To be honest, neither am I. I just like having that go to person when I'm in need of a bit of attention.
So I know you're wondering what the problem is. He's giving off some serious mixed signals. He acts like he just comes around for sexual gratification, but he's über-cuddly. It's impossible to be aloof while cuddling. I really wish he'd learn that particular lesson. He attentive to all my needs when we're together. He's genuinely apologetic when he's in the wrong. However, he'll attempt to distance himself while asking when can he see me again.
I'm good being a friend with damn good benefits. I'm cool being a jump-off. I'm fine with being the girlfriend. What I'm not good with is this nebulous state he's trying to keep me in.
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